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Learn the ultimate secrets of total self-confidence in this article.
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Dr. Robert Anthony
Dr. Robert Anthony is a renowned psychologist, author, and personal development expert known for his work on self-confidence, mindset transformation, and manifestation techniques.
He has authored several best-selling books and courses aimed at helping individuals achieve personal and professional success.
Over the past 25 years, Dr. Robert Anthony has hypnotized over 15,000 people worldwide. I have been a consultant to individuals from all walks of life, including entrepreneurs, personal development trainers, hypnotists, couples, students, authors, golfers, dancers, actors, singers, and well-known Hollywood celebrities. I have also appeared on numerous television programs.
He authored the popular book The Ultimate Secrets of Total Self-Confidence: Revised Edition.
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Dr. Robert Anthony Self-Confidence: 95% of the clients I have worked with over the past 25 years have had issues with Self-Confidence in specific areas of their lives. Although feeling under-confident is not intentional, many people struggle with it their entire lives.
No one sets out to get stuck in a job they don’t like because they don’t have the Self-Confidence to change careers or start their own business. No one sets out to get stuck in a disempowering relationship or social circle, surrounded by people who don’t love and care about them.
- No one sets out to be indecisive and procrastinate.
- No one sets out to be nervous and anxious in social situations.
- No one set out to struggle financially.
- No one sets out to be unhealthy, overweight, or out of shape.
But even though you may not have intentionally set out to have these things in your life, it’s a safe bet that some or all of them affect your life somehow.
Unfortunately, these kinds of problems usually don’t solve themselves. More often than not, they get worse. A mediocre career doesn’t suddenly get better. It has been slowly sinking throughout the years.
A bad financial situation (too much debt, not earning enough money, not experiencing financial flow) doesn’t magically fix itself.
A disempowering social circle or relationship situation doesn’t suddenly become uplifting and supportive. Usually, it drags you down further with each passing year.
An inability to respond confidently in social situations, meet new people, or ask for a date doesn’t suddenly improve with time. Likewise, a battle with weight or lack of exercise won’t change if you buy the latest exercise gadget or read another diet book.
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Self Confidence
Without the Self-Confidence to change these situations, we often feel stuck. Rather than making the changes, we turn to multiple forms of distraction — web surfing, TV, video games, compulsive drinking, smoking, eating, drugs, etc. It would be great to use hypnosis to achieve success in your life.
Deep down, the lack of Self-Confidence and dissatisfaction builds because we know our lives have gotten way off track. But how do we fix it? – Let’s take a look.
You can only go for so many years dealing with boring jobs, inadequate finances, unsupportive relationships, and destructive health habits. Eventually, those things will begin to erode your Self-Confidence.
Isn’t it much better to admit that we must handle our Self-Confidence issues instead of denying we have them? Lots of people succumb to denial. They act like they’re growing, evolving, and successful when, in reality, nothing is significantly changing for them.
So, how can you determine if you can help build your Self-Confidence? A simple formula will measure your current Self-Confidence with 100% accuracy.
The first step is to look at your life and see if there is any evidence that you are significantly better off now vs. 90 days ago.
What excellent results have you accomplished during that time?
The second step is to give each result a number from 1-10.
1 would be nothing has changed, and 10 would be significant progress.
Suppose you’re confident in EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE and making progress. In that case, you should be able to name several significant breakthroughs during the last 90 days that are objective and observable.
Circle each one and rate them from 1-10.
Some examples of specific results include:
Fulfilling work or business projects you completed.
1—2—3—4—5–6—7—8—9—10
A positive shift in your finances (Where are you now vs. 90 days ago? Did your income go up? Did your debt go down? Do you have more money or assets? Fewer liabilities? Did you make some intelligent investments?)
1—2—3—4—5–6—7—8—9—10
A positive change in your relationships (What evidence is there that you deepened your current relationships? Broke off an unhealthy relationship? or Added empowering new friends to your social circle?)
1—2—3—4—5–6—7—8—9—10
A positive change in your health status (Did you lose fat, gain strength, flexibility, or endurance? Did you adopt some positive new health habits?)
1—2—3—4—5–6—7—8—9—10
What do your recent past and rating from 1-10 say about your Current Level of Self Confidence?
If there’s little or no evidence that significant change has occurred in EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE within the past 90 days, it’s safe to say you’re stuck and lack Self-Confidence in those areas.
And if you can’t see any tangible, measurable progress over the past year, you are stuck!
Looking To Your Past to Predict Your Future
Past performance is the best predictor of future performance. This is true not only for individuals but also for teams and companies.
If you want to know where your current path is taking you – look to your past. That’s the best way to predict where you’re headed. Looking at your past is more reliable than your goals and intentions.
If I want to know where someone is headed, I’ll look at their past, especially their recent past, and make a prediction based on that. I am not interested in hearing about their goals and intentions.
I want to know what they’ve been up to for the past few months, and that will give me a pretty good idea of where they’ll be in a year or so.
We may not be able to predict what will happen tomorrow or next week accurately. Still, barring an unusual chaotic change, our lives tend to be much more predictable over extended periods than we care to admit.
Consider some of the people in your life — people you know pretty well. Can you reasonably predict where they’ll be a year from now? Can you guess where they’ll be regarding their career, finances, relationships, health, spiritual growth, etc.?
I’m not asking you to predict the exact outcome. I’m merely asking you to paint a general picture of what you expect each person’s life will look like in a year or so.
My guess is you will be pretty accurate because you can be objective.
Predicting Your Future
Sometimes, it’s easier to make predictions about other people instead of ourselves. We are much more objective when we look at other people’s lives.
It can be challenging to examine ourselves objectively, especially when we don’t like what we see.
No one wants to predict that a year from now, they’ll have lost their home due to foreclosure, gained 20 pounds of fat, and endured a string of bad relationships.
Try this:
Make predictions about where you’ll be in a year, but base your predictions only on hard factual evidence from the past 90 days of your life. Assume those same patterns will continue for another 12 months.
Where will they lead if you repeat the patterns of the past 90 days for 12 months?
Telling Yourself the Truth
A huge part of telling yourself the truth is making accurate, objective predictions about where you’re headed. To make accurate predictions, you cannot use your goals or intentions as a precise indicator of where you will be in the future.
Imagine that you’re in a court of law trying to make a ruling based on the facts of the case.
Your goals and intentions for the future are inadmissible as evidence because they are not hard facts. They’re merely opinions or speculation about what may be.
Based on the hard facts – your recent past – what do you think that ruling would be? To make accurate predictions of your future, you must look to your past and only your recent past.
This may be something you didn’t want to hear, but I am just being honest with you. When you study and learn from your past, you’ll notice specific patterns that repeatedly keep you stuck.
All of these patterns are rooted in your lack of Self-Confidence in your ability to follow through and make the changes. One of those patterns is the “start-stop” approach.
This is when someone has a strong desire to change. They feel a surge of positive emotion and decide things will be different. They usually believe it, too.
They set new goals and intentions and start taking some actions, but their actions are inconsistent because of a lack of Self-Confidence. Most of their efforts are one-offs, meaning they never get integrated as permanent habits.
For example, they get highly motivated to change—usually after reading a book or taking personal development programs—and they will get started, but that’s often as far as it goes.
Eventually, the excitement over the new direction and information fizzles, and the person stops changing and gets sucked back into their old under-confident patterns from the past.
No real, lasting change occurs. Now, don’t get me wrong. Goals and intentions are compelling. Having clarity about what you’re going to do next is essential. But deciding what you want is only the first step.
And if that’s all you do, then I predict you will have some occasional success, but for the most part, your life will be a repeated pattern of “start-stop” mediocrity.
I’ve seen that pattern play out enough times across enough people’s lives that I consider such results reasonably predictable.
The Root Cause for the lack of self-confidence
The root cause of our “start-stop” behavior is the inability to feel confident enough to follow through and make the necessary changes until we get the desired abundance of results using hypnosis.
Not if, but until.
Most people lack enough Self-Confidence to create the life they deserve, which saddens me, so I’ve made it my mission to change that.
I would love to walk down the street and see that spark of happiness and confidence in everyone’s eyes. But today, I often see people with low levels of Self-Confidence who are unhappy and struggling to express their True Selves.
Four things keep most people from expressing the full force of their True Selves.
- Lack of fulfilling work (not doing what they love, not contributing)
- Financial struggle (too much debt, not earning enough money, not experiencing financial flow)
- Lack of loving relationships (unsupportive, disempowering, apathetic, or cynical social circle; no one to love and be loved by)
- Poor health (lack of energy and vitality, tiredness, and health issues.)
These are the most common killers of long-term happiness. But there is something vital you need to know: All of these problems are just symptoms. The real issues are much more profound.
Most personal development books and programs focus on fixing these symptoms, but they never identify and treat the root cause of those symptoms.
Consequently, even people who study personal growth for most of their lives never seem to be able to “lock on” to success. It always eludes them.
But some people succeed massively with:
- Deeply fulfilling work that expresses their creativity and contributes to the world.
- A beautiful flow of financial abundance makes it easy to afford whatever they wish to experience.
- Loving and supportive relationships with people who genuinely care about them.
- High energy, vitality, and excitement levels — mentally, physically, and emotionally.
This is because they have Unstoppable Self-Confidence.
Do you think knowing how to build Unstoppable Self-Confidence to achieve these results might serve you?
When you have Unstoppable Self-Confidence, you can tackle—and defeat—the three demons that keep you stuck.
- Denial
- Disconnection
- Inaction
Let’s briefly discuss each one.
1. Denial – First, to get unstuck, be honest enough to admit the truth of your current situation. If you’re stuck, don’t pretend that you’re making progress.
Denial cannot help you change your situation. It would be best if you started being honest with yourself. Look to the past 90 days, your patterns, and your progress.
Stop kidding yourself that things will somehow magically get better in the future. Your future is entirely predictable.
If you keep doing the same things repeatedly, and they haven’t worked in the past, it’s safe to say you won’t make much progress in the future.
Giving up denial and identifying and eliminating the thought patterns, beliefs, and behaviors eroding self-confidence is essential to permanent and lasting change.
2. Disconnection – The second confidence killer is disconnection.
This is when you lose sight of your passion, dreams, and desires. Disconnection leads to hopelessness. You must stay plugged into your aspirations for a successful and happy life.
Don’t let them die. What do you want to experience? Think about your desires often. Connecting with your desires is a central part of your life, but you can only do this if you feel self-confident.
When people are plugged into their desires, their eyes are sparkling and full of life. Take a moment to look at yourself in a mirror. Do you see that sparkle in your eyes?
Does your image reflect happiness, fulfillment, and a feeling of Self-Confidence? Or is it reflecting disappointment, regret, and a lack of Self-Confidence?
You can break the feeling of disconnection once and for all by creating Unstoppable Self-Confidence.
3. Inaction – Inaction is the third confidence killer.
This can take the form of procrastination, indecisiveness, and low levels of self-discipline.
The lack of inspired action consists of the inability to maintain momentum in the face of external pressures and follow through on your goals and plans.
The proven antidote for inaction is deliberately training yourself to become more confident in your ability to succeed. Realize that denial, disconnection, or the inability to take inspired action are not permanent.
Stop running from your fears as if they were permanent and start seeing them as temporary roadblocks you can bust through with unstoppable self-confidence.
You can train yourself to make the necessary changes.
Not actively training yourself to increase self-confidence is one of the worst personal growth mistakes. I’ve seen people have incredible breakthroughs when they finally said, “I have had enough of not feeling confident.“
They got fed up.
They recognized that their inability to break their patterns was rooted in their lack of Self-Confidence, and they committed themselves to creating Unstoppable Self-Confidence.
The key lesson here is that if we want to grow, we must ultimately stop succumbing to denial, disconnection, and our inability to take inspired action because of our lack of Self-Confidence.
You Can Reinvent Yourself with improved self-confidence.
At every moment, you choose your identity. You appoint and anoint yourself to be the person you want to be.
You can reinvent yourself. Don’t allow your current lack of Self-Confidence to become a life sentence! Could you do something about it now? Let me be your outside force if you’re stuck at all today!
My Self-Confidence Creator can help you. I have made it practical, easy to learn, and easy to apply, and you will see a noticeable increase in your Self-Confidence in 7 days or less!
In his book The Hero’s Journey, Joseph Campbell summarizes the situation by saying, “We must be willing to give up the life we’ve planned to have the life that is waiting for us.”
Your new life is waiting for you – Total Self-Confidence Course
You can continue to feel under-confident in certain situations, or you can take your life to a whole new level and create Unstoppable Self Confidence in EVERY situation.
You deserve a beautiful life filled with happiness, success, and abundance.
Are you ready to get started?
P.S. I bought myself a copy of this program in November 2018. It’s a low-cost program, but I like the hypnosis for self-confidence. It does work, yet you have to stick with it.
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